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Hold one's own happy key

2009-12-02T10:18:21+00:00

Hold one's own happy key

A ripe person should grasp one's own happy key, he does not expect others make him happy, can bring being happy and happy to others instead. Everybody has a ' happy key ' in the heart, but we often give others it to administer unconsciously!

A lady complains: ' I live very unhappily, because the gentleman is often on business at home. ' she put the happy key by gentleman. A mother says: ' my child is not obedient, make me very angry! ' she hands in the happy key in child's hands. The man may say: ' superior do not appreciate me, so I am depressed. ' this key is filled in by boss. The mother-in-law says: ' my wife is not filial, my bitterness ordained by Heaven! ' young people come out to say from the stationer's: ' boss serve, behave badly, so angry as to fry me really! '

These people have all made the same decision - Let others control his mood!

When we permit others to control our mood, we think oneself is a victim, powerless to the present situation, complain and become our only choice angrily. We begin to blame others, and transmit a message: ' I is so painful, is all what you cause, you should be responsible for my agony! ' we at this moment entrust this great responsibility to the person around - -Require them to make me happy. We seem to admit oneself is unable to control oneself, can only allow oneself to be ordered about pitifully. Such a person enables others not to like being close, even inspire awe even from distance.

A ripe person can grasp one's own happy key, he needn't expect others make him happy, can bring being happy and happy to others instead. He has steady mood, can be responsible for oneself, it is a kind of enjoyment to be with him, but not the pressure.

Practise Buddhism or Taoism people teach us how to want: Act as one's own host, don't environment, about material desire; The Holy Bible teaches us how to want ' it is happy to often like, everything forgives, feel grateful in everything. ' your key where? In the hands of others? Let's go to take it back quickly!

The happy source is from oneself, but not others!

Wish you are good day everyday

2009-12-02T10:17:38+00:00

Wish you are good day everyday
In the same life, unusual psychology, the angle which treats the thing is completely different. Can jump out, see oneself, with optimistic, optimistic, the psychology made allowances for takes oneself into consideration, know oneself; Non- overcritical oneself, the more important thing is to surmount oneself, break through oneself, because it is just hopeful to live a better life. It is far away that the person making you angry has already gone, you are still angry for him, why? The sage must say in health: [Angry, punish oneself with others' mistake ]. Jump out, see oneself, you might as well change pieces of angle think, take oneself, you can realize life bitter tired and happy, comfortable, depend on a kind of mental state of people's, involve person's attitude toward life, experience the things. Jump out, change pieces of angle think oneself, you can calm to face life calm, will not bring others' mistake to punish oneself again. When the agony comes at you, there is no harm in jumping out, change an angle and see oneself, in life facing this many errors bravely, look for painful cause on the and then sad lean soil, the lesson and overcoming the painful method, let soul make the brave choice in covering with the soul of thistles and thorns, go to look for the maturity in life.

The society chooses, know how to give up Jump out and change an angle and see oneself, oneself will be got in living happily, ' auspicious day in everyday ', soul can roomy and bright, have predicament to be worried.

, a grandma gives birth to and brings up two daughters, the eldest daughter marries a businessman who sells the umbrella, two daughters work in the dyehouse. This enables this mother's everyday sorrow. It is fine, she is afraid the eldest daughter's umbrella can not be sold out; It is getting overcast, she can not dry clothes in two sad daughter's dyehouses. She so is been the fine the getting sadder either in cloudy day sad,how long head white. One day, the relatives and friends of a distant place came to see her, surprised her aging, asked its reason, laughable unwittingly, that relatives and friends say: "Cloudy your eldest daughter's umbrella sells well, you are glad, the dyehouse business of fine two daughters of yours is good should be glad too. In this way you have a happy thing every day, it is good day everyday, glad to collect sorrow why do not you pick up specially? " The grandma changes an angle and thinks: "Speak with reason! " From then on, she often smiled, happy every day.

Life of people, always unavoidable to knock against, it meets to be but angry fast, meet natural and man-made calamities but overwhelmed with sorrow. Whenever at this time, how did we go to deal with?

Remember having a sage to say: [Our agony is not brought by questions itself, but our view on these questions was produced. ]This words are very philosophical, it will want to free while guiding us. Talking about this, I think of another story:

, at dusk in summer, a young married woman beautiful drowns oneself in a river and commits suicide, is saved by the white moustache boatman who is rowing the boat in the river. The boatman asks: "You are annual gently, why commit suicide? " "I just got married two years ago, the husband abandoned me, then the child dies of illness again. What fun I have to live do you say? " The boatman hears and has qing to hesitate. Say: "Two years ago, how did you live? " The young married woman says: "I was carefree freely at that time ""Did you have husband and child at that time? " Do not " have " "Then you are just returned to and gone two years ago by the ship of destiny. You are carefree freely now. Please go to bank "

Just finishing speaking, if the young married woman makes a dream all of a sudden, she rubs eyes, thinks, leave the bank and leave. From then on, she did not commit suicide again. The young married woman comes around to the correct way of thinking. It is because of herself, thus saw a kind of dawn grown. Experience the efforts freely. Here frequently, our suffering and worried capital depend on the mistakes made of ' experience ' received in living in the past are judged by oneself, at this moment, we might as well jump out, change an angle and see oneself, you would not accidentally drop, frustrated in love and dejected for the failure, market of battle field; Can add for fame and gain body, praise rise from all around slaphappy either. Change an angle and treat oneself, it is a kind of break-through, one kind is freed from, one is surmounted, a kind of high-level one is without worldly desires and quiet, thus obtained fun freely. Transfer to an angle and watch the world, the world is spacious limitlessly; Change a kind of position and treat the personnel, the personnel are fitted lightly all without exception. Wish you are good day everyday!

When the ideal and pursuing in life can't be realized, there is no harm in changing an angle to treat life. Change pieces of angle, can produce another philosophy, another kind handle affairs view.

Long for with one heart

2009-03-09T05:18:47+00:00

Long for with one heart
There is round one kind, she has a dot, two circles. Concentric circles that people are called the round of such form.
There is a kind of lock, she is a tool to lock, two hearts. People are called the lock of this kind of love on the concentric lock.
There is a kind of knot, she is 0.33 meters of red ropes, two are woven and formed. People are called and formed the knot woven like this with one heart.
One kind is deducted, she is a silk thread, two wind and deduct. People are called and deducted this kind of button twined with one heart.

I like the concentric circles, I like the concentric lock, I like forming with one heart, I like deducting with one heart. They by one - two, by 2- first. They are two in succession, two is led into one.

Have two hearts, a gleam of feeling. The heart connects with a gleam of feeling, attaches concern to two hearts. The such one is loved, I let her long for with one heart.

The same mood, the same one is loved, the same state of mind, the same feeling
The soul one call, the soul one should with,the soul one promise, the not keeping of soul
The meeting by chance of the love, the distillation of the love, the perseverance of the love, the continuity of the love

Two people, two hearts, a section of feelings, long for in all one's life.

There is a piece of concentric circles in longing for inside with one heart beautiful. The centres of a circle of the concentric circles are the love, it is me to be little and round, it is you to enclose greatly. The big circle is enclosing the small round, is the love, love dearly and have pity for, help and protect, wait. The small round is concerned about the big circle, stay, draw, have a sentimental attachment for, wait. Have helped a river missed while enclosing small and round and great. The concentric circles: The dot, small and round, the clitellum, large circle. The concentric circles while longing for with one heart: Love, I, miss, you.

There is a concentric lock in romantic longing for inside with one heart. The concentric lock is held by you and me, we two lock it in our longing for inside with one heart. The key has been thrown in the sky, it is too interdependent to love each other before remaining this life that destined. Concentric lock constantly people, lock up heart, lock heart, no matter in where it will be people, the heart is sentimentally attached to together all the time, snuggles up to and keeps.

One is formed in touching longing for inside with one heart with one heart. Form the red rope with one heart, has tied the knot that two motives wove with the feeling. Depending on tightly, it is the health to form a tight one, the heart that is pinioned is the soul. Red to make up area coil up, form with one heart, green tree flower hold the twin lotus flowers on one stalk. It is a cirrus of the soul that the silk silk forged with one heart hangs down the ear of grain, it is the continuity of the love. Form one fruit of love with one heart, form reason of feeling with one heart, forge this life with one heart, along bearing foreordained affinity, make an appointment with the next life.

One is deducted in deep-rooted longing for inside with one heart with one heart. Deducted and twined with the long lingering affection with one heart, it was the feeling, and the love that was deducted, slippery recalling with deep feeling was missing from the silk thread. The long black hair puts the silly and silly heart on the spot, twine the heart in deducting with one heart, is deducting it all one's life, deducting it forever. Deduct and deduct all all sorts of gone through with one heart, deduct and promise to deduct every sentence talking with one heart, have deducted and deducted the love of the raw generation of generation of two lives with one heart. These of not longing for with one heart spikes and tells people, such a love persists in the ambition with one heart, non- repentant to abandon.

It longs for to be such love with one heart, have round have, lock, have, form, have, deduct, in love to have, love, have, long for, have chance with. It longs for to be so out of the common with one heart, long for, can let people to be infatuated with one heart.

Enclose, enclose round, core lock feeling, become attached to love of forming, spike, think, spike, study in.

Concentric and grow, concentric and meet, the concentric and language, concentric and obtain, concentric and long for, concentric and realizing, concentric and silly, concentric and think, concentric and bitter

This to long for with one heart, love, in ecstasies, unwilling to wake up in a such one

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Let soul have a rest

2009-03-09T05:14:52+00:00

Let soul have a rest
It is a kind of mood that people live! This world was originally very simple, it was we that did it complicatedly. People agony, have, live according to one's own way that like because of you. Most people are according to others' requirement life, painstaking change, violate the thinking of heart, so agony.
There is a lot of helplessness while living in the world, if can't change something, then is not so good as when we have free space, treasure oneself, let soul have a rest.

Let your aeolian bell rock,
It is the wind;
Let your life move cleverly,
It is the love;

In the windy one in the afternoon,
Listen to the noise that the aeolian bell stings quietly;
Have noise of aeolian bells in that in the afternoon,
Missing that person at heart quietly;

Let oneself and aeolian bell turn an organic whole,
Let heart and love flow together with the wind.

In this world, a lot of things are that we are unexpected. We can't control the opportunity, but can grasp oneself; We are unable to foresee the future, but can hold now; We can't know how long on earth one's own life is, but the life which we can arrange instantly; About our changeable weather, but can adjust one's own mood. So we should give one of oneself hope in one day.
Hope, seem to be very dull wording, but include all kinds of intension. Try to give one of oneself hope every day, create with the attempt by one's own efforts, go to explore, go to develop, will progress, will succeed, your life will become beautiful and meaningful too.
Give a hope of oneself every day, just give a target of oneself, a little confidence of oneself that give.
Give a hope of oneself every day, we will have a rich and colorful life.

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